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It all started with my father who, trying his hardest to console a weepy teenager who didn’t have a date to prom, told me that it wasn’t my fault that men didn’t want to date me. He totally meant it as a compliment — he’d raised a strong, outspoken young woman, and he knew it — so I tried to take it as such.
But as I got older, and the men I’d date started calling me intimidating as a way to weasel out of the situation we were in, I realized that the opposite sex didn’t always see intimidation as a positive thing.
Men will hardly approach a woman that they feel is better than them in any way or has a physical or attitudinal aspect that makes her superior.
However, most of the things that make a woman so intimidating are things that every woman should aspire to develop, because everyone has the right to better him or herself.
I believe that to a certain extent — I won’t open up and spill of my neuroses on the table right away, even though I overthink everything.I’m independent — I live alone, I support myself, and I don’t need anyone to help me change a lightbulb.(Yes, this is one of the things certain men found intimidating.) And I like these parts of myself a lot.Unfortunately, that wasn’t the case for me a few years ago.Being the person I was, I started to try to tone down my personality.