Chemistry and dating updating old painted cabinets
In other words, you can have an amazing marriage to a man even if you don’t obsess about him, miss him mournfully while he’s gone for a few hours, or be positive he’s your soulmate. You hear so many people who think women are supposed to be in a relationship with someone just because they’re nice to you and are commitment minded.
Well yes, those are non-negotiables, but it’s a little more complicated than that.
Chemistry largely relies on biology and is that intangible, unspoken connection that results in feelings of lust, sexual excitement and romance.
There’s no real logic to chemistry but when you have it with someone, you just feel it.
Or was it the other way around; loads in common but the butterflies and physical attraction just wasn’t there?If you are looking for someone to spend your life with, you damn well need to enjoy their company day after day. In this case, I’d still give the guy a little longer than a month to make sure – it doesn’t sound like you think he’s awful, just ok.They don’t need to be good looking, but you need to feel happy with their face, and their touch. Essentially compatibility is the similarities between lifestyles and values that make the relationship work without too much forcing or compromising on anyone’s part.On the flip side of the coin, you don’t enjoy the same social activities, you have the opposite taste in music and you can’t agree on what restaurant to go to for dinner however, you’re so physically attracted to each other you’re convinced you’ve never/will never feel this way about anyone ever again.