Dating a man getting divorced
Because of these contradictions, you have to do a reality check and assess whether a) he’s invested in you as a long-term partner, or b) whether you’re his transitional woman as he segues into single life.
Like knowing when to sleep with a guy, this is about intuition, not hard and fast rules.
All you can do is trust your gut and don’t second guess yourself every step of the way.
Therefore, you seem to think all men should feel the same way. But you are correct in proceeding with a sense of caution. Not because he listed himself as divorced but is really separated. He gave a lot to her during their time together, but, when it got right down to it, he really needed to sow his oats for awhile.He’s doing what’s practical not to scare people off.The relationship might have been dead five years ago, but the paperwork is still pending. A man who says he’s ready to move on isn’t necessarily ready to move on. After all, he doesn’t even know if he is or if he isn’t.Any advice would be wonderful- thanks in advance for your response!Dear Sara, We all make judgments based on our own experience.