No interest in dating anymore
I’m only asking a girl out on a real date if I think there’s some actual relationship potential – if I like her beyond her looks.A girl with a great personality is worth all the trouble that asking, planning, and paying for a date involves.First off, asking a girl out on an actual date can be stressful because of the possibility of rejection.
This means that, even if we want to ask her out, a good chance may never present itself.
You’re making your intentions extremely clear, and that can put you in a really vulnerable position.
The possibility of rejection only increases if the girl you’re asking has no idea that you’re interested in her.
But is it so wrong for me to ask for a girl's opinion while planning an evening that I want to make sure she enjoys? After asking and planning this special event, the guy has to pay for the whole thing!
I know some ladies don’t mind going dutch or finding someway to split costs (which is great), but how many would offer to do so on the first date?